5 Proven Cues to Cement New Habits

Written by Shannen van der Kruk | Habits

Habits are the building blocks of our daily lives. They shape how we spend our time, the progress we make toward our goals, and even how we see ourselves. At the heart of every habit lies a simple, yet powerful concept: The Habit Cycle.

Coined by Charles Duhigg in The Power of Habit, the habit cycle consists of three components: a cue, a routine, and a reward. However, I’d also like adding a fourth step that James Clear mentioned in his book Atomic Habits: craving.

The cue initiates a craving that then leads to the motivation to act and getting a reward when acted upon. No matter which framework you follow, each habit begins with a cue – the trigger that starts the loop.

In this article, we’ll explore five proven cues that can help you cement new habits into your daily routine. By understanding and integrating these cues intentionally, you can make the process of habit formation easier, more predictable, and more enjoyable.

1. Time: The Natural Rhythm of Habits

Time is one of the most common and effective triggers for habits. Our brains are wired to associate certain times of the day with specific activities. For instance, waking up in the morning might naturally cue brushing your teeth, while evenings might signal it’s time to wind down with a book.

To harness time as a cue, pick a consistent time for your new habit. For example, if you want to start meditating, set a reminder to practise every morning at 7:00 AM. The predictability of the cue helps your brain establish the connection, making it easier to stick with the habit over time.

Negative Influence: Time-based cues can also work against you. For example, if you regularly snack at 3:00 PM, your body might begin to crave unhealthy foods at that time, even when you’re not hungry. Recognising these patterns can help you replace unhelpful habits with better ones.

2. Location: Your Environment Shapes Your Behaviour

Our surroundings play a powerful role in influencing our actions. Certain environments naturally cue specific behaviours. For example, walking into the kitchen might make you think about eating, while entering a gym primes you for exercise.

To use location as a cue, designate a specific place for your habit. Want to journal daily? Create a cosy corner with your notebook and a pen that signals “This is where I write.” Or if you want to read more, keep a book by your bedside table.

By associating your new habit with a particular environment, you’re creating a physical reminder that nudges you toward action.

Negative Influence: Location cues can reinforce bad habits too. If you associate your couch with binge-watching TV, you might find it hard to sit there without reaching for the remote. Rearranging your environment can help break these associations.

3. Preceding Event: Stacking Habits for Success

One habit often leads to another, creating a domino effect. This is the basis of "habit stacking," a technique where you pair a new habit with an existing one. For instance, if you already have a habit of brewing coffee each morning, you can use it as a cue to practise gratitude by writing down three things you’re thankful for while the coffee brews.

To implement this strategy, identify habits you already do consistently and pair them with the new behaviour you want to adopt. This not only provides a built-in reminder but also creates a seamless transition between habits, making them feel like part of the same routine.

Negative Influence: Preceding events can also chain undesirable behaviours. For instance, finishing dinner might prompt you to reach for dessert, even if you’re not hungry. Becoming mindful of these connections can help you interrupt harmful patterns.

4. Emotional State: Turning Feelings into Triggers

Emotions are powerful triggers for behaviour. For example, stress might cue you to reach for a snack, while excitement could motivate you to call a friend. By recognising how your emotional state influences your actions, you can intentionally link positive emotions to new habits.

To leverage emotions as cues, pay attention to how you feel during different times of the day or in specific situations. If you notice that you feel energised after work, use that as a cue to go for a run. By aligning your habits with your emotions, you’re more likely to stick with them because they feel natural and rewarding.

Negative Influence: Emotional cues often drive negative habits as well. For example, feelings of boredom might lead you to mindlessly scroll on your phone for hours. Understanding your emotional triggers can help you redirect these behaviours toward more constructive actions.

5. Other People: The Influence of Social Cues

Human behaviour is deeply social. The people around us have a significant impact on our actions, often without us realising it. For instance, if your friends regularly exercise, you’re more likely to do the same. On the flip side, if your peers frequently procrastinate, you might find yourself following suit.

To use social cues to your advantage, surround yourself with people who embody the habits you want to cultivate. Join a group, find an accountability partner, or simply spend more time with individuals whose behaviours inspire you. Their actions can serve as powerful reminders and motivators to keep you on track.

Negative Influence: Social cues can also push you toward negative behaviours. For example, spending time with friends who drink heavily might lead you to consume more alcohol than you’d like. Being aware of these influences allows you to set boundaries or seek out groups that align with your goals.

Cementing New Habits Through Cues

Building new habits doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle. By strategically using cues like time, location, preceding events, emotional states, and social influences, you can create an environment that supports your growth.

Choose cues that resonate with you and integrate them into your daily life. Over time, your habits will become second nature, paving the way for lasting change and a happier, healthier you.