How to Stop Wasting Your Life (Avoid These 6 Things)

Written by Shannen van der Kruk | Productivity

Eliminating time wasters is a crucial part of time management, yet it's often overlooked. Many of us focus on squeezing more into our schedules, but we rarely examine the habits and activities that drain our time and energy without giving much back.

These “time blockers” are the silent thieves of our productivity, taking away precious hours that could be used to reach goals, pursue passions, or simply relax in a meaningful way. By identifying and cutting out these time blockers, you’re not only freeing up your day but also making room for the things that genuinely matter.

Let’s dive into the six biggest time blockers and strategies for managing them.

1. Social Media

Social media is a common time trap. Designed for endless scrolling and dopamine hits, it’s all too easy to fall into a loop of mindless browsing without real purpose. While intentional use of social media can be valuable, impulsive scrolling is draining and distracting. It’s not the relaxation we imagine it to be—it’s a form of overstimulation.

How to Avoid It:

  • Increase Friction: Move social media apps off your home screen so you have to search for them or use apps like “One Sec” or “Opal” to add a delay before opening social media. Adding these small points of friction can help reduce impulsive use.
  • Use Intentional Breaks: Research shows that genuine relaxation comes from activities like going for a walk, exercising, reading, or having a cup of tea. Try these activities as alternatives to reset your mind.
  • Experiment and Adjust: Treat your social media use as a “system” to tweak and improve. Experiment with times of day or weekly limits and observe how they impact your focus and mood.

2. The News

Staying informed is important, but constant exposure to sensationalised headlines and negative news can wear you down. News outlets often emphasise negativity because it captures attention, leading us into a cycle of worry and distraction.

How to Avoid It:

  • Limit Consumption: Choose a specific time to check the news, such as once in the morning, and avoid continuous updates. This makes your news intake intentional, not reactionary.
  • Use Summaries: Opt for concise news sources like “The World in Brief” for a quick overview of essential information. This way, you stay informed without getting bogged down.

3. TV

Television is a double-edged sword: it can help you unwind, but it also has a way of eating up entire evenings. Watching TV out of habit, rather than intention, can be a significant drain on your time. This applies especially to daily routines where TV fills moments that could otherwise be spent meaningfully.

How to Avoid It:

  • Set Boundaries: Limit your TV time to specific shows or days of the week. Consider setting a timer for the amount of time you’ll watch, or save TV for weekends only.
  • Reframe Quality Time: Watching TV together isn’t necessarily “quality time.” If you’re in a relationship, try spending time talking, cooking together, or taking a walk instead. These activities build stronger bonds than passive TV watching.

4. Chores

Chores are essential, but they can easily turn into time-wasters if not managed efficiently. Constantly interrupting your flow with small tasks—whether it's tidying up, doing dishes, or running errands—keeps you in maintenance mode instead of allowing focused work on meaningful goals.

How to Avoid It:

  • Automate and Delegate: Look for ways to automate or delegate. Meal prepping or subscribing to meal delivery services can save hours each week. Consider using grocery delivery services or investing in a cleaning service.
  • Batch Tasks: Dedicate specific blocks of time each week for chores. For example, do laundry on Sundays or tackle grocery shopping once a week. This structure reduces distractions and leaves more room for high-priority tasks.

5. Squandering the Spare Minute

When we have short gaps between tasks, it’s tempting to scroll through social media, browse online shopping, or simply zone out. But these spare minutes, though small, can add up and be used more intentionally to refresh and refocus.

How to Avoid It:

  • Reframe Short Breaks: Use these short moments to engage in quick, constructive activities. Deep breathing, stretching, or jotting down a quick journal entry can all make a big difference.
  • Think Small but Meaningful: Keep a list of micro-tasks—like replying to emails, reading a page of a book, or organising your desk—that can be completed in a few minutes. This approach prevents “wasted” moments and can give you a sense of progress.

6. Alcohol

For many, alcohol is part of social gatherings or a way to unwind on weekends. However, it can disrupt your sleep quality, leave you less focused, and make the next day feel sluggish. While moderation is key, overuse can easily turn weekends into unproductive downtime rather than valuable time for relaxation or personal growth.

How to Avoid It:

  • Reframe Weekends as Growth Time: If your weekends are your only free time to work on personal goals, avoid the habit of drinking excessively. Plan your weekends with intention, like engaging in hobbies, learning something new, or making progress on a project.
  • Shift Your Social Habits: Rather than centering social time around alcohol, explore other ways to connect with friends, such as hikes, games, or coffee meetups. It can take time to adjust, but eventually, you’ll find that meaningful activities leave you feeling more energised.